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Zahra Buhari Gets N47.1m Customized LV Bags In 30 Exotic Cars From Billionaire Fiancé (PHOTOS)

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Zahra,
 the 21-year-old daughter of President Muhammadu Buhari, has received 
about 30 customized LV boxes from the family of her husband-to-be, Ahmed
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The LV boxes have Zahra’s name customized as ZBI (Zara Buhari Indimi).</div>
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She is getting married to Ahmed, the son of Nigeria billionaire Mohammed Indimi, an oil tycoon.</div>
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In Northern Nigeria tradition, the groom’s family is expected to buy the boxes known as kayan lefe for the bride.</div>
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The boxes are usually loaded with 
diamond and gold jewelry, designer shoes, bags, super wax, laces, 
perfumes, designer underwear, cosmetics, jeans, tops and more.</div>
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The man can do from 1 to 50 boxes as a show of how rich and capable he is.</div>
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The LV bags which total about 30 and 
allegedly cost about £120, 000 (approximately N47,144,502, using the 
official rate of N392.87 to a pound) are said to have been delivered to 
Zahra in 30 exotic cars, according to a reliable source.</div>
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Zahra, the beauty and brain is a 
graduate of micro biology from the University of Surrey in England and 
also the ambassador for the SCAF, a foundation set on the initiative to 
arrest and minimize the case of sickle cell around the nation.</div>
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Her husband-to-be, Ahmed indimi, is a 
good looking graduate of a prestigious university and currently the 
marketing director of Oriental energy resources and hails from 
Maiduguri.</div>
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Zahra Buhari Gets N47.1m Customized LV Bags In 30 Exotic Cars From Billionaire Fiancé (PHOTOS)

Zahra Buhari Gets N47.1m Customized LV Bags In 30 Exotic Cars From Billionaire Fiancé (PHOTOS)

Zahra, the 21-year-old daughter of President Muhammadu Buhari, ha...

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Inside preparations for Zahra Buhari’s glamorous wedding

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As President Muhammadu Buhari‘s daughter, Zahra, prepares to walk 
down the aisle with Ahmed, son of billionaire businessman, Mohammed 
Indimi, on November 30 and December 4, more information about the 
hitherto low-key wedding have been revealed.<br />

Zahra is also the ambassador for the SCAF, a foundation set up to arrest and minimize the case of sickle cell around the nation.<br />

The groom is the marketing director of his father’s Oriental Energy 
Resources. A socialite, he trended on social media after he showed off a
 screenshot of his account balance of N99.864, 731 on Instagram.<br />

Although the bride, who is a graduate of Microbiology from the 
University of Surrey in England, has yet to officially comment on her 
impending nuptials, the same can’t be said of her in-laws, the Indimis.<br />

On Tuesday, one of the Indimi daughters, Rahma, posted Zahra’s 
picture on her Instagram Page, saying her family is “happy to have 
(Zahra) as one of theirs.<br />
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Her post read, “I met this young girl many years ago and I was 
smitten by her cheekiness. Only years later down the line she is to 
become ours. My darling Zahra, you are an amazing young lady with so 
much to give. We have seen and conquered our mission. My prayer is for 
the two of you to have a beautiful marriage and life with plenty of 
little ‘Rahma’s running around) we are happy to have you as one of us. 
Good things are hard to get and the fight was worth it. We can’t wait.”</blockquote>
According to reports, an introduction ceremony between both families 
held at the Aso Villa, Abuja on Friday, November 18, The wedding is said
 to be on a low-key celebration as the president desires it to be a 
simple and an intimate ceremony to be attended by only close family and 
friends.<br />

But, the Indimis, who are one of the prominent Northern Nigerian 
families, are not known to do things in half measure. Indeed, they are 
renowned for throwing some of the best bashes in town and this time 
around, they are pulling out all the stops for what many have tagged the wedding of the century.<br />
Over the weekend, Zahra received customized Louis Vuitton boxes from 
the Indimi family. The boxes are called Laife, and in northern 
tradition, the groom’s family buys a box for the bride. The box is 
usually filled up with diamond and gold jewelry, shoes, bags, super wax,
 laces, perfumes, underwear, cosmetics and more.<br />

Once more, the Indimis posted the photographs of the boxes on 
Instagram. The LV boxes have Zahra’s name customized as ZBI (Zara Buhari
 Indimi).<br />

Inside preparations for Zahra Buhari’s glamorous wedding

Inside preparations for Zahra Buhari’s glamorous wedding

Ahmed Indimi and Zahra Buhari As President Muhammadu Buhari‘s daughter, Zahra, prepares to walk down the aisle with Ahmed, son of bill...

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My Husband Compared Me to Goats, Wife tells Court

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A
 woman, Aderonke Ojediran, on Monday, approached a Grade C Customary 
Court, Agodi-Ibadan in Oyo State, to seek for dissolution of her 
five-year-old marriage with Oyeleke Ojediran, for allegedly comparing 
her with goats.<br />
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Ojediran also complained that she was seeking for divorce because 
Oyeleke had refused to pay her bride pride and had been threatening her 
life.<br />

Another reason for the divorce, the plaintiff said, was the lack of care for the only child of the union.<br />

She told the court that “ I packed out of my husband’s residence in 
2013 when I could no longer cope with the behaviour of my husband.”<br />

According to her, sometime in 2013, her husband brought goats inside 
their sitting room and compared her with the animals, saying she is the 
same as the goats.<br />

“He used to beat me and had been careless about my welfare and that 
of the innocent child we have. In fact, I am tired of the marriage and I
 don’t want to die young.<br />

The woman further prayed the court to allow her to take custody of the child for proper care.<br />

The defendant, who admitted that he brought two goats inside the 
sitting room, explained that he compared his wife with the goats because
 of her bad attitude.<br />

He also agreed with the divorce suit, alleging also that the 
plaintiff’s troublesome way of life was responsible for his hypertensive
 health condition.<br />

The President of the court, Chief Mukaila Balogun, then declared the marriage dissolved.<br />

He said “having listened to the evidence of both parties, it is clear
 that there is no more love between the couple and they should go their 
separate ways as they stand unmarried.<br />

“Custody of the only child of the union is to remain with the 
plaintiff and the sum of N3,000 is awarded against the defendant on 
monthly basis, being money for the upkeep of the child.”

My Husband Compared Me to Goats, Wife tells Court

My Husband Compared Me to Goats, Wife tells Court

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How celebrity marriages can work, by Omotola Jalade

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Omotola Jalade-Ekeinde, the Nollywood actress who was one of the panelists 
at the Innovation Warehouse, a mentorship programme for aspiring 
filmmakers and actors during the just concluded Africa International 
Film Festival in Lagos, has given an insight into what makes an marriage
 to work.<br />
The mother of four was advising young aspiring female actors and 
filmmakers who seek stardom, but are worried they might end up not 
finding the right man once they get into limelight.<br />
Omosexy, as she’s fondly called, dished out free counseling when a lady 
asked why fame usually come the way of celebrity marriages.<br />
“It’s better to be an enemy to a work partner than to your family,” said Omotola.<br />
Speaking further, she stated that for a marriage to work in the 
entertainment industry, partners must be of the same faith. “They must 
believe in you. If you’re a Christian and you marry someone who is not 
born again then you are on your own.<br />
“Your partner needs to be stronger than you. They are the ones getting the aftermath of your own action.<br />
“Choose a partner who understands entertainment. Don’t choose your fan. Personally, I don’t believe in love at first sight.<br />
“Pick someone who sees your heart, your soul, someone who sees the real you and not afraid to tell you about your flaws.<br />
“Discipline is key. Everyone wants freedom but too much freedom is bad. 
Be disciplined. It’s better to be an enemy to a work partner than to 
your family. Learn to say No!<br />
“We are like nurses and doctors in the industry because we can be called upon at anytime”.<br />
She also advised against giving in to advances to get movie roles. 
“Sometimes you will get a role for giving yourself out but you won’t be 
able to retain it. If you become famous it will later hunt you. But 
don’t run away from your sexuality, don’t shy away from who you are, 
enjoy who you are, come on there but come out with substance.<br />
Omotola got married to a pilot, Captain Matthew Ekeinde in 1996; they are both blessed with four kids.

How celebrity marriages can work, by Omotola Jalade

How celebrity marriages can work, by Omotola Jalade

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My wife tortures me emotionally, please help me.

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Hello ibasam...My wife tortures me emotionally, she loves the company of her single male friends and continues to make new male friends. They would visit her  and her them, hang out today, chat and text etc. She makes me look stupid when i complain about what she does and says i don't trust her and that lack  of confidence is why i complain about such things. Ijust think it is extremely disrespectful to me that someone can be so insensitive to my feelings. We have been married for a year now and she has been good for the most part but she isextremely sexual and loves the company of her men but had promised to stop all that when we get married but while some of it has reduced. It really hasn't stopped much. I have tried everything in the world to make her ssee reasons why this behaviour will ruin our marriage but she  doesn't seems to care and she's just set in her own way<br />
 Now she is pregnant but my love of her is self-destructing by the minute. What should i do? my mentor says the child will make her focus more on her family. I have never caught her cheating but i can't help to think she is just very good at covering her tracks.<br />
Please am i wrong?

My wife tortures me emotionally, please help me.

My wife tortures me emotionally, please help me.

Hello ibasam...My wife tortures me emotionally, she loves the company of her single male friends and continues to make new male friends...

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My husband used me, please help me!

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Morenikeji, a 42 year old woman who comes from a wealthy family got married to Dotun 12 years ago.</div>
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 But unfortunately the marriage was childless. Apart from coming from a wealthy home, Morenikeji also has a very good job, while Dotun is just a civil servant. About 8 years ago, Morenikeji decided to buy a land and informed Dotun about it. Dotun suggested that they should buy the land in the name of the child they hope to have one day. They agreed on a name and bought the land with the name, and Morenikeji built a very beautiful house on it. That was how Dotun encouraged Morenikeji to buy many other properties in the name of the unborn child. </div>
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Dotun died in a car accident 2 weeks ago, and Morenikeji got the shock of her life when a woman came for the burial with 2 children that belong to Dotun. The first child is almost 9 years old, and he bears the name Dotun gave Morenikeji's unborn child. The same name on all the properties which Dotun encouraged Morenikeji to buy.</div>
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Dotun's family are now trying to claim all the properties from Morenikeji. FRIENDS, PLEASE WHAT SHOULD SHE DO??? This is a true life Story </div>
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My husband used me, please help me!

My husband used me, please help me!

Morenikeji, a 42 year old woman who comes from a wealthy family got married to Dotun 12 years ago. But unfortunately the marriage ...

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I'm Emotionally Disturbed, Please Help!

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Hello... I'm emotionally disturbed and i would be glad if you share my story for people's advise and i want to remain anonymous.<br />
I have an issue bothering me and it's about my relationship. It happened that i told my mom to pray over three guys for me. the man she took the names to is a general overseer of a Cele Church and he prayed over it and also told his pastor friend to pray on it too.<br />
The feedback was they individually picked the same guy saying he's good for me, but they also said that someone better would show up if i'm patient enough.<br />
Now i don't know if he's the 'someone better' but someone has already showed up. He is 13 years older than me, a politician and i have done background check on him and he is not married.<br />
on the other hand, the guy the same pastors picked is 6 years older than me, a Doctor and he is not married too. It has been 10 months since i have been with the Doctor and 4 months with the politician. I know it is more of like double dating but i'm only stock in between the two of them because i dont know what to do.<br />
They love me and they also want to marry me, in fact they don't mind if i get married while in school but i'm almost done with school and might want to consider getting married. I love both of them sincerely but i can't marry two men. and another thing is the politician helps me more financially but he is always busy due to the nature of his work, while the doctor is really good in the other rooms and he checks on me regularly.<br />
I want to stop this life of double dating because it is really tiring, trying to avoid your phone and calls anytime you aremwith one is not easy.<br />
Please what should i do? should i go with the one the pastors picked or the 'someone better'? Help pls!<br />
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I'm Emotionally Disturbed, Please Help!

I'm Emotionally Disturbed, Please Help!

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Read This Inspiring Love Story

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 This love story testimony was shared on whatsapp by a friend, patient indeed is the gateway to hitch free mariage. Read the the testimony as shared by the husband below...</div>
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It was a very sunny Saturday morning, and our wedding anniversary. I looked at my wife as she got ready to leave the house for work. She is a doctor and had been on call today. It seemed like yesterday she walked down the aisle to me. Wow! We are twenty-three years in marriage today. I smiled at her, she smiled back. We have this thing we do in our anniversary; its more like a friendly competition, we see who surprises whom with the best anniversary gift. She had won five years in a row; I was definitely going to win this year because my surprise for her would blow her head off.</div>
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"So what are you going to do this year" she asked me, coming out clean with the question because she had stealthily tried to find out what my plans were. "Watch and see" I told her. I asked her the same question; she just said "hmmm". I've discovered when a woman says hmmm, she's really got something hot cooking. She picked her bag, kissed my beardy cheek and left. We had plans for dinner by 6:00pm tonight. Then, I would unleash my 'BIG' surprise.</div>
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We have been married for twenty-two years and we have no children, or perhaps God had not given us any. Over time we had come to realize that sometimes God says yes, wait or no! And there is nothing we could do to change that fact. He is GOD. Therefore, I had vowed to love Patience with the whole of my being. I had promised to always make her laugh and though we both sunk into lugubrious moods, we would trust and keep hope alive. I would be her husband and her son; and she my wife and daughter. We had just ourselves.</div>
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Patience, my wife reads a lot of books and her favourite authors are Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie and Karen Kingsbury and I bet she could kill to meet them in person. Last year I contacted Chimamanda and started making preparations to surprise my wife this year. After much process, I got her to have dinner with us tonight. It wasn't easy at all. My wife was going to faint! The idea that I had won this years' anniversary surprise made me all jumpy and giddy. I was going to prepare her best meal, 'Efo riro, bush meat and poundy'.<br />
I had known what my wife had planned for me. We live in Accra and I had always wanted to visit Nigeria, to Jos. I had told her so many stuff about this place I had grown up in, and especially about the mouthwatering 'Gwete'. I had tried to prepare gwete for her and on so many occasions failed. In fact the last time I tried it looks like 'Acha pudding' with cabbage and biscuit bone. LOL. Anyways, I heard her making plans for us to travel to Jos. I smiled.</div>
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Its 5:00pm, I had finished the cooking and all, set the table, lit the scented candles and did all the romantic 'orishirishi' we see in movies. The door opens.</div>
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"Awww!" She squeals. I hug her and after small talk she saunters off, mounting the staircase to get ready for dinner. I had showered, shaved and dressed in a crisp white shirt, jeans and sneakers. We are one of those couples that still try to look young even in our aging years. Forty-five minutes later, she comes down in a black dress with silver studs in her ears; she looked breathtaking. Although I could still see the grey that stuck in her hair. As we sat, the doorbell rang. I smiled, my surprise had arrived.</div>
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"Baby, get the door please" I said and ran off to get my camera. As she opens the door, she sees Chimamanda and her assistant standing at the door. She screamed! And hugged the smiling guest. We all sat to eat. I watched them both smiling from ear to ear as they discussed so many things especially about her books and all. Its 7:30pm and I can't wait for Chimamanda to leave so I could clinch onto my victory. <br />
Finally, she left. We were clearing the table when I saw the brown envelope sticking out from my wife's purse. I knew it! It was our plane tickets to Jos. Smiling vicariously I picked it up and opened it. I was right, tickets to Jos and also...</div>
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I collapsed on the sofa, and I couldn't quench the river of tears that had started to flow on my well shaven face. I was sobbing hard. That after twenty- three years (today) of marriage, God had decided to make me a daddy! My wife joined me on the sofa, we were crying for joy together because after so many years of God telling us to wait, He finally said yes.</div>
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My head was on my wife's laps. I could perceive her cologne better. Interrupting our tearful silence she asks me. "So honey, who surprised who, who won this year?" With a mischeviois grin, I looked up to her not wanting to carry last this year and said " Na Godwin". We both laughed looking ahead. We were going to be parents! God had surprised us both. Although, my wife keeps saying she won.</div>
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Inspiration: 'Weeping may endure for the night, but joy comes in the morning". He who calm the storm! </div>
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Lovely People, its not too late for your Expectations to be met before the end of this year. Trust God to do it</div>
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I Am Pregnant For A Man I Don't Love, Am Confused.

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I'm 32 year old, i met a guy like two years ago, due to need for marriage and companionship and started dating him. He's so nice to me but I'm not in love with him.<br />
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My friends advised me to stay with him because he's nice and love will grow, so i stayed with him with the hope that I'll meet someone in the future that i will truly love but it has backfired because now i am four months pregnant for him. Ever since i learned of the pregnancy, i have been very sad and depressed.<br />
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I care for this guy, but i can't just make my self to love him no matter how hard i try. When he travels, i don't miss him, when i dream about my wedding, i don't picture him. I am so sad and confused; Should i marry him because of the baby and be unhappy or should i leave him and hope i will find someone who i will love and who will love me even though i have a baby?<br />
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Ladies, What would you do if this happens to you?

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Ladies,if u catch ur man with another woman what will u do? </div>
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A)kill the man<br />
B)kill the woman<br />
C)kill <u>urself</u><br />
D)kill both of them<br />
E)just leave</div>
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7 Reasons Why Men Like Women With Curves

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It’s a fact that African men have always loved women with a bit of flesh. Same cannot be said of Caucasian men of old but the story seems to be changing as more and more men seem to be more comfortable with women that are curvy.<br />
There are a lot of reasons to love curvy women over skinny ones as a lot of slim girls lack essential factors inherent in curvy ones. These factors range from fertility to beauty and they are the things most men look out for. For this reason, we bring to you 7 of the most audacious factors that make men crave curvy girls over skinny ones.</div>
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<b>Bigger Breasts</b><br />
A whole lot of guys out there are crazy about boobs and they make this much known. Boobs are actually one of the great endowments curvy women have over the skinny ones. We do not mind if such women have a few extra pounds down the middle provided they make up for it with good looks. Curvy girls should take advantage of this and get the guys to drool over them.</div>
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<b>They’re Softer</b><br />
Skinny women have a harder body while curvy women are the exact opposite with softer bodies. Men naturally enjoy being the hard ones while a tender and soft body snuggles up to them. Fleshy girls are good to hold and snuggle up to even as the sex is more interesting. </div>
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<b>No B ruised Thighs</b><br />
When you’re with a girl that has curves, you’re guaranteed to get away with no bruising after sex. A skinny girl will probably give you sores and bruises around your thighs and groin while a softer body with more flesh would give you an entirely different experience.</div>
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<b>They Look Younger</b><br />
Girls that have the right curves in the right places are much younger than their skinnier counterparts. That little extra fat helps smoothen out wrinkles and gives them a healthier skin. This takes off some years from their age and makes them look younger.</div>
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<b>It’s a Sign of Fertility</b><br />
The subconscious part of every man likes curvy women. For centuries, fertility has been associated with big breasts and wide hips, thus making curvy women a better biological mate than others.</div>
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<b>They’re Not Afraid to Get a Little Rough</b><br />
It is easier for men to get rough with curvy women than it is with skinny women. This is because curvy women are not seen as delicate or “breakable” as their counterparts and as such, a little bit of rough sex comes up more often with them than others.</div>
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<b>They Are Less “Tomboyish” and “child-like”</b><br />
A whole lot of guys see skinny girls as tomboys and immature. The curves on a female are viewed with a more mature and motherly look unlike the non existing ones on the skinny ones. Some other guys view skinny girls as immature and think of dating them <u>more</u> as dating a fellow guy. A lot don’t enjoy this feeling.<br />
However, bear in mind that some guys do actually prefer dating skinny women but there are also lots of guys out there who would rather be with curvy women. African men and Greek men prefer women with curves as opposed to some. The point is that irrespective of how you look or weigh, there are always people out there who are attracted to your person.<br />
It is important to appreciate your body just the way it is.</div>
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5 most common relationship problems

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<strong>Everyone is familiar with the fairy tale definition of love —
 the scintillating and stomach-fluttering feeling you have when you are 
smitten over someone.</strong><br />

But all that giddy feeling can be threatened by certain unforeseen, unavoidable, and almost inevitable circumstances.<br />

If you’re a realist, in a relationship, or have been in one, here are five challenging situations you’d easily recognise.<br />

<strong>Money problems</strong><br />

The presence and absence of money in a relationship could contribute 
immensely to the success and/or failure of such a relationship.<br />

If the man is in a position in which he can’t meet his partner’s 
needs, arguments could set in and that could raise questions like ‘where
 is this relationship heading’, ‘what are your plans for me?’<br />

Although ‘money can’t buy love’, the importance of money in a relationship can’t be downplayed nor overstated.<br />

<strong>Distance </strong><br />

When both parties are not physically in touch, relationships most often tend to suffer.<br />

At this point when the gap is wider than ever, some in a relationship
 start to feel insecure as distance creeps in and mistrust assumes 
prominence.<br />

<strong>Communication gap </strong><br />

Communication is a key factor in every relationship as it lays the foundation for understanding, empathy, and synergy.<br />

Once communication is not in place, you feel lost and cut off from 
your partner and the relationship doesn’t look the way it used to.<br />

<strong>Falling out of love</strong><br />

Some have experienced such painful situation when the love once shared withers because the spark is no more there.<br />

This happens from time to time in many relationships – and has led to the end of many.<br />

<strong>When there’s someone else </strong><br />

Once there’s someone else in the picture, jealousy springs up in a relationship, and things become toxic between both parties.<br />

The ‘lovey-dovey’ acts you share disappear and you become preoccupied
 with how to impress your partner so that their attention is not shared 
with someone else.<br />

Gradually, you lose yourself in being impressive and possibly become what you’re not.<br />

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7 reasons long distance relationships often fail

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<strong>It takes a great deal of maturity, patience and understanding to make a long distance relationship thrive and last.</strong><br />

Once these attributes are not mutually inherent in both parties to a 
certain degree, a long distance relationship may fail to last.<br />

One-too-many long distance relationships have buckled under the pressure of ‘<em>out of sight is out of mind’ </em>and several are presently flailing in the valley of distrust.<br />

Here are 7 reasons long distance relationships are difficult to manage.<br />

<strong>Infrequent personal time</strong><br />

Yes, you make long audio/video calls, and may also chat endlessly on 
social media but no amount of that can replace the wonderful feeling you
 get when the conversation is live and your partner is right there 
beside you.<br />

There is no better experience in a relationship than spending quality time together.<br />

<strong>Miscommunication</strong><br />

Partners tend to misunderstand each other because of expressionless statements.<br />

She says something to you on phone but you are not with her to read the expression she wears when she makes the statement.<br />

Consequently, both parties could suffer miscommunication and this could ignite a fire that wouldn’t be easy putting out.<br />

<strong>When phone calls becomes a big deal</strong><br />

When you start developing a feeling that you have an obligation to 
execute, you start to consider it a chore or lot of work to connect with
 your partner, and calling gradually becomes a task.<br />

<strong>When one party is investing more than the other</strong><br />

It might not look disturbing at first but if it persists, things migh deteriorate.<br />

It could be a miserable feeling when you give everything to a 
relationship and your partner doesn’t even appreciate your efforts. 
Rather, what you hear is ‘I think you call too much’.<br />

When one party does the most visiting, sends the most text messages 
and calls way more than the other, most often than not, the relationship
 is headed for the rocks.<br />

<strong>Engaging in serious conversations</strong><br />

You get to know if your relationship is doomed to fail when you don’t
 have convivial atmosphere each time you are around each other.<br />

When you only get to talk about serious issues and there is no such 
thing as laid back bants, it could mean that the distance is 
contributing adversely to your communication.<br />

<strong>When you feel something is not worth talking about</strong><br />

The moment you start holding back issues you feel are not worth 
sharing with your partner, then you should know you are allowing 
distance determine your commitment.<br />

By pushing off such issues, you unconsciously start keeping secrets 
from your partner and that could damage the trust in the relationship.<br />

<strong>Growing apart</strong><br />

This is among the major reasons long distance relationships fail.<br />

That you partner is not with you doesn’t mean you aren’t living your 
life. You are growing, learning and meeting people; you gain experiences
 and changes set in.<br />

It then becomes difficult for both of you to keep track on your 
change process and this could cause you to drift apart from each other 
slowly.<br />

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7 reasons long distance relationships often fail

7 reasons long distance relationships often fail

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7 signs you are in a toxic relationship

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<strong>You fall in love with someone and you’re always excited to spend time with them, goof around and share special moments.</strong><br />

Then, a few months, maybe a few years later if you’re fortunate, the 
sight of the person begins to irritate you and you start looking for any
 chance to get a whiff of fresh air.<br />

You’re probably in a toxic relationship.<br />

<strong>Passive aggression</strong><br />

When your significant half does something that gets you mad but you 
don’t say anything about it. You just keep giving side glances and 
looking at him or her with disdain.<br />

The moment you can’t or don’t feel comfortable saying what you feel, you’ve lost something vital to your relationship.<br />

<strong>Negative criticism</strong><br />

Being so close to someone means you get to see their life under a 
microscope. All their imperfections become apparent to you as well as 
their fears and vulnerabilities.<br />

Positive criticism is a great tool in building each other in a 
relationship but the moment you start using their insecurities to spite 
them and make your partner feel bad, that may be a blow you can’t 
recover from.<br />

<strong>Arguing without communication</strong><br />

Screaming at each other at the top of our lungs may be a good way to 
release anger but it’s far from the best way to keep a relationship.<br />

It’s perfectly normal to get angry and upset but you need to have a 
regular conversation without two people talking over each other to find a
 solution.<br />

<strong>Negative energy </strong><br />

You can’t see it but you can feel it. You come across people every 
day that just exude the wrong vibes that just make you cringe.<br />

This negative energy can drain you emotionally, mentally and physically.<br />

Your significant other is supposed to be your escape and not the cause of your troubles.<br />

<strong>Avoiding each other</strong><br />

You should at least be able to tolerate your partner, even at the lowest point of your relationship.<br />

The moment you can’t even stand to be around them, it’s all over. Just call it quits or work it out.<br />

<strong>Feeling like there is no point</strong><br />

Is there a reason for all this hassle? Where is the relationship 
going? I don’t think I want to spend the rest of my life with this 
person.<br />

If these thoughts cross your mind more often than not, then there probably is no point to the relationship.<br />

<strong>You only try to make him or her happy</strong><br />

Scratch my back, I scratch yours, right? The basis of a relationship is mutuality. Your happiness should be their happiness.<br />

The moment you constantly try to make your significant other happy and you remain miserable, you have to take a raincheck.<br />
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5 Questions To Ask That Divorced Guy You’re Dating

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A man who completely avoids the topic or
 shows “significant discomfort” talking about his divorce may still be 
emotionally invested or, at the very least, has some serious tension 
about the topic, Cilona says. And that’s a red flag. It shows that he 
has an unhealthy connection to his previous marriage and/or spouse, 
which could be <a href="http://www.womenshealthmag.com/sex-and-love/red-flags-when-you-meet-his-family">trouble</a> for your future.</div>
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<strong>Do you want to get married again?</strong></h2>
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You might assume that since he’s been 
married before, he wouldn’t have any issues hitching up again, but as 
Durvasula points out, that’s not always the case. “Some may not want to 
get <a href="http://www.womenshealthmag.com/sex-and-love/women-on-why-they-never-remarry" target="_blank">married again</a>
 after experiencing it once,” she says. It’s important to determine 
where your guy stands on the issue, and how it aligns with where you see
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<strong>Do you believe that you can spend your life with someone?</strong></h2>
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Even if neither of you is interested in 
marriage, it’s a good idea to find out whether he thinks two people can 
be together for the long haul—ring or <a href="http://www.womenshealthmag.com/sex-and-love/famous-quotes-single-ladies" target="_blank">no ring</a>.
 Think: Goldie Hawn and Kurt Russell. He may not want to legally commit 
again, but could be completely open to the idea of a forever-commitment 
or living together. “Plenty of divorced folks believe in love and 
commitment as much as anyone,” Durvasula says. If your guy no longer 
thinks that two people can be in a loving, committed relationship, 
that’s a red flag.</div>
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<strong>Did you want the divorce?</strong></h2>
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According to <a href="http://data.stanford.edu/hcmst" target="_blank">Stanford University</a>
 research, 70 percent of divorces are initiated by women. And, while 
your guy may not have initiated the divorce, it’s good to find out if he
 wanted it. “You want to suss out that he is not still pining for his 
old life,” Durvasula says. “You also want to find out if he is still 
holding a torch for his ex.” Granted, it’s possible he didn’t want the 
divorce but he’s since moved on. However, his answer to the question can
 provide clues as to whether that’s the case.</div>
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<strong>How do you feel about your ex?</strong></h2>
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Not everyone can speak highly about their ex (kudos to <a href="http://www.womenshealthmag.com/sex-and-love/celebrity-divorces" target="_blank">Jennifer Garner</a>
 and Ben Affleck), but if he’s super bitter or angry about her, that 
could be a sign that he’s still emotionally invested in the 
relationship, Durvasula says.</div>
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Other bad signs: Your guy puts the blame
 for the demise of his marriage on his ex, or says he’s learned gross 
generalized lessons about women or marriage based on his experience, 
Cilona says. “No matter what the situation, each partner has 
accountability and contributes in some ways to the relationship and 
dissolution of the marriage,” he points out.</div>
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Above all, keep this in mind: Divorce 
can be a very healthy thing. “Staying in a broken relationship is not 
honorable, and many people grow from them,” Durvasula says. “But you do 
need to ask these questions to decide if you would be OK with being 
spouse number two if it came down to that.”</div>
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6 Advantages Of Dating Someone Who Travels A Lot

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<strong>1. YOU’LL HAVE MORE TIME FOR YOURSELF:</strong> Don’t think 
of your partner’s travels as time away from each other. Think of it as 
an opportunity to do things that you wouldn’t normally do with your 
partner. Rather than spend one day a week watching a game with your 
friends, you can now watch Sunday night football and Monday night 
football. You can do a weekend spa treatment and still go to the club 
with the girls. It all depends on how you play your cards, while your 
partner’s away. Just make sure that you’re not doing anything wrong and 
stupid.<br />

<strong>2. NEW EXPERIENCES:</strong> Your partner’s trips are a 
chance for both of you to experience new things. Even if you’re not 
together, you can grow from your separate experiences and teach each 
other new things along the way.<br />

<strong>3. AWESOME STORIES:</strong> You can get all the information 
and entertainment you want from the TV and the internet, but nothing 
beats a good conversation with your partner about the adventures they 
experienced. Even if it’s just a mundane trip, you still get a chance to
 talk to your partner, because they’re itching to tell you everything 
about their trip and how much they missed you.<br />

<strong>4. PLENTY SOUVENIRS:</strong> This is just a concession for 
all the hardships that you will need to endure, but it doesn’t hurt to 
have a keychain of a national animal or at least a bag from a different 
country. You have to appreciate the little things that your situation 
has to offer, in order for you to learn to love the best parts of your 
relationship as well.<br />

<strong>5. YOU’LL GET TO MISS THEM:</strong> When your partner always
 travels, you start to appreciate the moments that you have together. It
 helps you build a stronger foundation for your relationship and it 
keeps you on your toes. Every homecoming will seem like the best day of 
your life, and every second you spend together will be more special than
 the last.<br />

<strong>6. FREE TOUR GUIDE:</strong> Don’t be jealous of your 
partner, just because they’re always traveling. Think of it as a 
reconnaissance mission for your next romantic trip together. The best 
part is that your partner has done the necessary research and already 
knows how things work over there.<br />
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Actor Femi Adebayo (AKA Jelili Oniso) weds Omotayo Sanusi in Lagos (Photos)

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Actor/Special Adviser to the Kwara State Governor on Culture and 
Tourism, Femi Adebayo, got married to his woman, Omotayo Maimunat 
Sanusi, in Lagos today October 9th. The actor was previously married to 
Khadijat Adebayo, the mother of his 3 children.<br />
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His 
family, friends and colleagues including: Ronke Oshodi-Oke, Adekola 
Tijani, Faithia Williams-Balogun, Sola Kosoko, Desmond Elliot, Bimbo 
Oshin, Odunlade Adekola, Muyiwa Ademola, Iyabo Ojo Dayo Amusa, were 
present at the ceremony. More photos after the cut...<br />
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Actor Femi Adebayo (AKA Jelili Oniso) weds Omotayo Sanusi in Lagos (Photos)

Actor Femi Adebayo (AKA Jelili Oniso) weds Omotayo Sanusi in Lagos (Photos)

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Things Strong Women Should NEVER Do For A Man

BASAM 0 Relationship 23:43:00

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1. Change your appearance.</h2>
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If your SO is a decent human being, they
 won’t ever force you to alter the way you look for their benefit. They 
should love you for you, and <em>all</em> of you. If your weight, hair, 
or style really bothers him, he’s clearly not with you for the right 
reasons. Any physical changes you make should be made because you want 
them, not for attention or for someone else.</div>
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2. Compromise your passions.</h2>
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Absolutely no one should get in the way 
of your goals. It is your life, after all, and nobody else will regret 
leaving any dreams behind more than you. The decision to pass on a job 
opportunity or put an idea on hold <a href="http://www.popsugar.com/love/Signs-Youre-Settling-Relationship-41818840">might seem best at the moment</a>,
 but the future is never guaranteed. Your partner should support your 
endeavors, and if he’s willing to come along for the ride, that’s just a
 bonus.</div>
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3. Wait for his approval.</h2>
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A strong woman plays by her rules and 
doesn’t sit around for instructions. You should be assertive and go 
forward with your own decisions rather than seek validation from someone
 else. You’re grown enough to know what’s best for you.</div>
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4. Cancel already-set plans.</h2>
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It’s different to reschedule when something important comes up, but it’s problematic when <a href="http://www.popsugar.com/love/Signs-Youre-Clingy-Relationship-39717368">you drop what you’re doing</a>
 just to be with him. Your friends and family should not be on the 
sideline and only brought in when he’s unavailable. You should never be 
on standby, and if he’s respectful, he won’t mind catching you another 
time.</div>
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5. Let him change who you are.</h2>
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Don’t change who you are for anyone but 
yourself. And if you do decide to make any self-adjustments, they should
 be improvements that will better you. It’s possible that he’d be more 
interested if you do x, y, and z, but <a href="http://www.popsugar.com/love/Signs-You-Were-Meant-Break-Up-36722023">he wouldn’t genuinely like you for you</a>. Never lose sight of who you are.</div>
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Things Strong Women Should NEVER Do For A Man

Things Strong Women Should NEVER Do For A Man

1. Change your appearance. If your SO is a decent human being, t...

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3 People You Should Never Take Relationship Advice From

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1. Anyone who is angry and bitter</h2>
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Was your best friend a jilted bride or a
 groom who was stood up at the altar? Don’t ask friends or family with a
 chip on their shoulder how to win at love. If you hang around them long
 enough, their attitude could rub off on you. Then no one will want to 
date you because you have such a bad attitude. Don’t let someone else’s 
bad experiences warp how you see relationships. Psychologist Randi 
Gunther said bitterness may temporarily protect you from experiencing 
painful feelings, but it will only hold you back from finding a 
fulfilling relationship in the long run. Gunther describes bitterness as
 emotional poison. “Bitterness hurts, emotionally, spiritually, and 
physically. People appear to hold on to it to protect themselves from 
more pain. It does shield them from more hurt, but also from love as 
well. Cynical relationship seekers, bitter from the heartbreaks of the 
past, may not allow for a new and dangerous future. That engulfing 
sorrow holds open a painful wound of disappointed memories, even when 
the lovers who caused them are long gone,” said Gunther.</div>
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2. Someone who hasn’t had a successful relationship</h2>
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It’s possible you could learn a thing or
 two about what not to do, but that may not get you very far. When 
seeking quality love advice, go to someone who has actually had quality 
relationships. Personal development expert Michael Hyatt said it’s best 
to get advice from those who have the results you seek. “Here’s my rule 
of thumb, and it rarely fails me: Never take advice from people who 
aren’t getting the results you want to experience. If you don’t like 
what you see in the life of the messenger, it’s usually best to ignore 
the message,” said Hyatt.</div>
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3. Players</h2>
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If you’re seeking advice from someone 
who thinks being in a relationship is a game, and quickly getting 
someone into bed means you’ve “won,” you’re looking in the wrong place. 
Steer clear of anyone who thinks of relationships simply as a way to 
pass the time. Mari Ruti, associate professor of critical theory at the 
University of Toronto, said those who are careless when it comes to love
 are only doing themselves a disservice. Focusing all of your energy on 
winning will lead you nowhere. “The trouble with the games of romance is
 that eventually the mask will have to come off. Eventually you’ll have 
to reveal who you actually are, and then what? The rules of love may 
allow you to hoodwink your partner for a while, but ultimately they’ll 
lead you to a dead end,” said Ruti.</div>
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3 People You Should Never Take Relationship Advice From

3 People You Should Never Take Relationship Advice From

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If Someone REALLY Loves You, They’ll Do These 6 Things

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1. Drop by for a surprise face-to-face visit</h2>
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In a study conducted by Ford and YourTango, 55% of participants polled said that <a href="http://www.yourtango.com/2016292698/new-study-reveals-people-love-really-want-from-you" target="_blank"><span style="font-family: Thread-00001028-Id-00000104;"> when a friend surprises them with a face to face visit, it made them feel totally loved.</span></a>.</div>
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Can you remember the last time you 
dropped by a friend’s house just to see their face, and say hello? Yes, 
we text about our day and communicate constantly, but nothing beats 
actually being in each other’s presence.</div>
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<a href="http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3537144/" target="_blank"><span style="font-family: Thread-00001028-Id-00000104;"> Studies have shown</span></a>
 that being in the presence of the people we love is vital to keeping us
 happy and healthy. And it makes sense! Think back to the last time you 
hung out with a friend and laughed so hard you couldn’t breathe. There’s
 literally nothing that beats it.</div>
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2. Call to share good news instead of just texting</h2>
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We can communicate with emojis, sure. I 
think many of us pride ourselves on our ability to weave an entire epic 
tale with strategic eggplant and frowny-face emoji.</div>
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That’s all well and good, but it turns out that even in this text-lovin’ age, <a href="http://www.yourtango.com/2016292698/new-study-reveals-people-love-really-want-from-you" target="_blank"><span style="font-family: Thread-00001028-Id-00000104;"> 51% of all participants polled in the survey</span></a> said that they would much rather hear their phone jingle and hear the roar of your congratulations on the other end.</div>
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Yes, a party hat and streamer emoji is 
cute, but you know what is so much cuter? Singing your own absolutely 
terrible personalized “Congratulations on Your Promotion at Guitar 
Center” song to your former roommate Stoner Dave.</div>
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3. Go for a weekend road trip</h2>
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<a href="https://media.ford.com/content/fordmedia/fna/us/en/news/2014/12/29/2015-ford-trend-report-explores-generation-z.html" target="_blank"><span style="font-family: Thread-00001028-Id-00000104;"> Studies show that 52% of adults</span></a>
 on planet Earth (you know, this planet) seek out experiences that just 
CAN’T be replicated. Anyone can stay at home and order a pizza (and far 
be it for me to be critical of my favorite food), but when was the last 
time someone filled the gas tank, made a killer playlist, and just drove
 aimlessly with you for a couple of days?</div>
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You can’t remember, can you? That’s a damn shame! It’s a fact, <a href="https://www.washingtonpost.com/national/health-science/loneliness-grows-from-individual-ache-to-public-health-hazard/2016/01/31/cf246c56-ba20-11e5-99f3-184bc379b12d_story.html" target="_blank"><span style="font-family: Thread-00001028-Id-00000104;"> lonely people don’t live as long</span></a>
 as people who feel connected to their friends. SO STAY ALIVE, go on a 
remarkable adventure, you don’t need to be a millionaire to do it.</div>
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4. Tone down the multi-tasking</h2>
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When people are multi-tasking, they might feel like they’re getting more done, but in fact <a href="https://media.ford.com/content/fordmedia/fna/us/en/news/2014/12/29/2015-ford-trend-report-explores-generation-z.html" target="_blank"><span style="font-family: Thread-00001028-Id-00000104;"> they’re also getting more stressed</span></a>.
 So let’s close our laptops, people. Ignore Pokemon Go. Mute that 
podcast. When someone is chatting with you (online or in person), they 
should be giving YOU all of their attention. They need to show that they
 value your relationship. And you need to do the same.</div>
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I mean, don’t be a creepy weirdo staring
 at them without blinking and gently stroking their face like some kind 
of monster, but we can all make more of an effort. We’ve all tried to 
talk to a friend or partner over the sound of their fingers clicking 
away on the keyboard. Be the change you want to see in the universe, 
y’all.</div>
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5. Remember to tell the people we love that we love them</h2>
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My roommate now at the age of 33 is the 
roommate I was assigned as an 18 year old starting college. She’s my 
best friend. We’ve been there for each other for thick and thin. But ask
 me how often I actually <a href="http://www.yourtango.com/2013182354/love-quotes-inspirational-famous" target="_blank"><span style="font-family: Thread-00001028-Id-00000104;"> tell her that I love her</span></a>. The answer? Basically never.</div>
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If someone loves you, they should be 
telling you. (And vice versa.) Of course we should all be treating our 
special people with regular love and respect, but there’s something 
really special about making that eye contact and really TELLING the 
people you love that you’re thinking of them, and that they matter to 
you.</div>
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6. If you’re going through a tough time, they need to show up</h2>
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The world is big and sometimes it’s 
scary. Bad things happen to everyone. When you or someone you love is 
struggling, the best thing we can do is activate our networks of support
 and really be there in that time of need.</div>
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Facebook wall posts can be meaningful, but people also need to pick up the phone. <a href="http://webcache.googleusercontent.com/search?q=cache:C5WivsUvRUoJ:www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/09/10/facts-about-being-nice_n_5791778.html+&cd=4&hl=en&ct=clnk&gl=us" target="_blank"><span style="font-family: Thread-00001028-Id-00000104;"> Show up, it’s good for you! </span></a>
 Bring that devilishly delicious Frito pie perfect for soothing a sore 
heart and soul. Taking an active role in our social circles outside of 
the internet can make all the difference in the world in someone’s time 
of need.</div>
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