I'm 32 year old, i met a guy like two years ago, due to need for marriage and companionship and started dating him. He's so nice to me but I'm not in love with him.
My friends advised me to stay with him because he's nice and love will grow, so i stayed with him with the hope that I'll meet someone in the future that i will truly love but it has backfired because now i am four months pregnant for him. Ever since i learned of the pregnancy, i have been very sad and depressed.
I care for this guy, but i can't just make my self to love him no matter how hard i try. When he travels, i don't miss him, when i dream about my wedding, i don't picture him. I am so sad and confused; Should i marry him because of the baby and be unhappy or should i leave him and hope i will find someone who i will love and who will love me even though i have a baby?
Joy write from Oluyole Estate Ibadan, Oyo State Nigeria.
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this is crazy,u dont love him and the guy is nuce to u,what else do u want in life than a caring husband...my advise is for u to start loving ur guy and stop watching too much Nollywood movie
ReplyDeletegood day! the truth is you're not obliged to marry him because you're pregnant for him. pregnancy isn't a ticket into marriage flight. But I must tell you this, going into a relationship because you think youre old or whatever is not a good decision. Youre not meant for every man but for a man who God is taking His time to build and prune properly. Secondly, sex before marriage is like requesting for a B.sc certificate before admission. its very wrong. Sex is Gods initiative and its best enjoyed in the holy matrimony. I pray for strength to wait for Gods time and also grace to right your wrong. God bless you.
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good day! the truth is you're not obliged to marry him because you're pregnant for him. pregnancy isn't a ticket into marriage flight. But I must tell you this, going into a relationship because you think youre old or whatever is not a good decision. Youre not meant for every man but for a man who God is taking His time to build and prune properly. Secondly, sex before marriage is like requesting for a B.sc certificate before admission. its very wrong. Sex is Gods initiative and its best enjoyed in the holy matrimony. I pray for strength to wait for Gods time and also grace to right your wrong. God bless you.
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Marriage is not done based on sympathy... It has to be real.#slicky
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