1. What are some of your hobbies?
This will help you see what things your
date finds fun and interesting. Your date may spend a lot of time on
these hobbies, and if you get serious, may want to involve you in these
activities.
2. How did you choose your career?
Most people have interesting stories to
tell about how they landed on their chosen career path. A discussion
about careers may help you learn more about their motivations and work
ethic.
3. What are you most passionate about?
Your date’s passion will be where much of his or her time and energy is spent.
4. What are some of the goals on your bucket list?
This can provide some insight into areas of your date’s life that have yet to be explored.
5. How long ago was your last serious relationship?
The timing may show you whether your
date is ready to begin another relationship. If it was very recent, you
may want to explore why he or she is dating so soon.
6. What was the reason your last relationship didn’t work out?
Also ask who initiated the break-up and
why. This may give you some insight into how he or she handles conflict
and what they find important in a relationship. In addition, how was the
news delivered? If your future partner says it was via text, email, or
worse — social media — you may want to proceed with caution. Someone
that insensitive will likely treat you the same.
7. What’s your biggest relationship regret?
Did he or she wish they spent more time
with their ex? Did they fight all the time? Ask what your date would
have done differently.
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