1. She’s grown out of “dating for the sake of dating.”
These girls are not into wasting their
time or energy on a guy they really can’t see themselves being with long
term. Casual dates just seem like a waste of time. It doesn’t mean she
isn’t interested in dating, she’s just not interested in attending ONE
more mediocre date. Mediocre dates happen solely for the sake of going
on a date. This is a concept that has grown tired on her. She would
rather have a good gym sesh, some pinot noir, a face mask, and bed by 9
p.m. than participate in a forced date. She’s become picky, but if
someone worthwhile came along, she would be on a date in a heartbeat!
2. She’s not into meaningless sex.
As much as we all try and dance around
this topic, our generation is known to have casual sex with “no strings
attached.” She does not confuse “dating” with “hooking up.” A “hot but
single” girl has been there and done that with the A-holes who just want
ass. She is not going to be down for this guy. To her, nothing is worse
than being reminded of the losers from her past by a sub-par hookup and
zero follow through on a guys part. Sex is better with someone she has
feelings for, and she’s willing to wait for that.
3. She’s not looking to fill a void.
As young adults, we are innately forced
to focus on a few key areas of life. This list normally includes:
career, family, health, romantic relationships, and friends. What if
this “hot but single” girl is killing it in every area other than
dating? Is she really going to feel a huge glaring void in her life? The
answer is no. A woman, hot or not, who has a complete life isn’t going
to succumb to the throes of dating desperation to find the one thing
she’s missing. She’s too pretty, busy and happy to force it with the
next guy who comes along just to place a checkmark next to her romantic
life.
4. She seems to have it all.
The following statement may be
controversial, but it’s also true . . . guys are NOT idiots. When a guy
meets this “hot but single” that has her sh*t so together, he knows she
is wife material. He can’t find a laundry list of reasons to give her
the fade away after two weeks. She has beauty, brains and a glowing
personality to boot. Dating what could be a future wife can scare the
living crap out of a guy. It forces the issue of whether he wants
commitment anytime soon, or at all. So, unfortunately for this hot
single girl, most of the guys she’s dating aren’t ready for this, so
they feel forced to call it quits before it begins. They see the
situation for what it is and bail wishing they could cross her path in
fiveish years.
5. She knows exactly what she wants.
This hottie hot hot singleton has dated
around enough to have learned from her past and identify specifically
what she wants in her long term bae. She is sick and tired of making
exceptions for losers that live with their moms, but are “really
driven.” She is looking for someone as independent, successful, and as
happy as she is! Her list of non-negotiables is rock solid, and she
knows better than to waste her time on a dude who doesn’t match what she
wants. She refuses to settle for just anyone.
Credit: popsugar
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